homo­socialization for terminally online perverts

under construction

flagging, also know as “the hanky code” is a longstanding tradation in the gay community meant to covertly signal your sexual availability and preferences to others while out crusing for casual sex. by wearing color-coded handkerchiefs in your back pocket, you can let others know what fetish or sexual activity you’re seeking out, as well as your prefered position.

for example, an orange hanky means you are open to anything, anywhere (but not necessarily anyone), and wearing it in your right pocket means you are a top, while wearing it in your left pocket means you are a bottom.

the practice of flagging has long since become a relic of a former time in the queer community, but now you can flag online and let other perverts know you’re down to clown.

this site is almost entirely a goof, and takes heavy inspiration from others like kink garden and (the now defunct) pronoun.is.

this site is also open source, so if you would like to add any new hankies, please submit a pull request.

to get started, select your first hanky, or learn what color you’ll be flagging!